I will not cry—>I will smile…


I am not talking about crying when you lose someone you love–I am talking about not crying when you got laid-off, in the verge of losing everything, and the last $20.00 bucks in your wallet. This is when you want to cry, this is when you want to run and never come back, or this is when you want to satisfy your misery with a bottle of scotch.

You have heard how the light is at the end of the tunnel, how the grass is greener, or how everything will get better–but these words are so hard at the moment. Right now when you need “hope” it’s gone, when you need answers there are none, or when you need solutions they don’t show–everything you do is not working…

Fear is whispering in one ear “it won’t get better”, frustration is whispering in the other ear “everything is your fault”, and pain is causing tears to come down your eyes…

You want to give up…you want to cry–but let me tell you a secret instead of crying smile, instead of giving up fight, or instead of anxiety calm down–cause no matter how much you cry, drink, or do something stupid–the issue is still going to be there, the problem still awaits, or the situation will still face you…so readers say it, “I will not cry–I will smile”

It’s hard to crack a smile when everything is going wrong–and let me clarify I am not saying the situation you are in is a smiling situation–I am saying don’t let the situation bring you down, don’t let the situation control your future, or don’t let the situation define your character…it will be hard–but instead of crying; smile.

I guarantee you that smile will not resolve your situation; however, it will make you not stress over your situation, it will give you a clear mind to think “what is next”, and above all smiling will not show defeat when everything is going wrong…so I urge you don’t cry; but smile…

No smile is as beautiful as the one that struggles through the tears. ~Author Unknown

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